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祈望来生-----致小悦--周立基  

2010-06-06 00:06:50|  分类: 小悦 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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 小悦和我中学学的是俄语,我们都曾获得俄语竞赛一等奖。毕业后我们先后自学了英语,由于我的惰性英语始终进步不快,以至小悦经常狠戳我这根软肋。即使在完全不相宜的场合,他也会拿我的臭英语说事,反复说道:“老周什么都学得像,就是英语不长进。”小悦的激将法还真的在我身上发挥了效力,通过我多年的努力自觉英语水平有了长足的改善,可惜已没有机会与小悦当面对话。我决计在每年小悦的祭日给他写封英文信,看看我的心境离小悦有多远,看看我的英语与小悦差距有多大,并藉此表达我对小悦的感激之情。这便是所附信件的由来。

                                                                                                                                                                                              周立基

祈望来生

-----致小悦

 

亲爱的茄子:

 

自广州挥泪为你送行以来已经过去了两个多月,我对你的追思和缅怀仍在继续。你我之间跨越半个世纪的友情虽已刻骨铭心载入我的生命,但我清楚地知道,今生我们已经无缘相见,直到我也去往天国的那一天。经历数日的悲痛,我终于走出忧伤的心情,因为我们有机会祈望来世。

 

如果有来生,我愿意继续和你做同学,从上幼儿园到念研究生。不过让我们相互许诺:我们只做一般的好学生,而不做最拔尖的学生。让我们丢弃一切假面具,做一回真正的自己,而不要将自己活作别人。

记得在清华附中同窗的六年里,我们从初602班到高634班预641班从来没有分开过,而且我的学号总是紧随你之后。下辈子再做同学,我会强烈要求将我的学号调至你的学号前面。我惟愿所有的比试和竞技你都优先于我,除了让我走在你的前头。不知道有多少次,我想象体验着你作为我的生前好友为我送行,但却从来没有想到你会先我而去。你留给我无尽的遗憾和伤痛,令我至今无法接受你已离去的事实。

一如你的名字,始终暗示你一切言行皆为取悦他人,你惟独忽略了愉悦自己,以至你终生没过几天好日子。所以我强烈建议你改名为陈大悦,引导你在关爱别人之前先善待自己。千万别忘了,只有内心的彻悟和智慧才能带给你最大的快乐。

 

    如果有来生,我还愿意做你的挚友。我愿意与你一道早些从日愈物化的世界退隐,关注我们的内心世界,共同思考与感悟人生,回归心灵的家园。我们更需注重身心健康,讲求生命的质量。我会尽力说服你改变饮食偏好,少吃肉类甜食和加工食品,多吃蔬菜水果和天然食物。另外,我会试图劝说你调整运动习惯,从偏好登山、打球和饮酒改为爱好唱歌、跳舞和饮茶。一句话,你应当换种活法,学会关爱生命享受生活,担当和履行人生赋予你的各种角色,而不是仅仅为工作和事业劳顿。

 

如果我下辈子还是女人,我只想成为你的红颜知己。我要使自己宛如一本领略不尽的好书,用真情和仁爱将书写就,让美丽的语言在书中闪亮,让温婉柔美的情愫在字里行间流淌。我将一如既往对你付出我的真诚和关爱,除了你的微笑和幸福,我不会向你索要任何东西。我要再次提醒你别忘记我们曾经的约定,相互支撑活过90岁。虽然我们已分属阴阳两界,但我仍旧满怀信心,期待着与你共庆90寿诞的那一天。相信我,我会尽心关照你的女儿萌萌,妹妹小林,弟弟小茁,还有你的好兄弟立哲。只要我活着,就一定会珍惜我们之间的深挚情谊,我绝对不会让你失望。

 

虽然你的身影已经离开了我们,但你的灵魂却永远活在我们心中。你所有的学生、同学和朋友,都会像你的家人一样,永远怀念尊敬和热爱你,真心渴望期盼着来世与你再相逢。小悦:请在天国等着我,等着我们!

 

给你和小黑小黄奉上最热烈的问候和拥抱

你的忠实的蛤蟆

201063

To Xiaoyue------Praying for the Next Turn of Life

 

June 3,2010

 

Zhou Liji

Apt.404 ,Building 22 of Yi Yuan,

Anhui Beili, Chaoyang District,

Beijing 100101,P.R.China

Tel:13701030129

Email: yezhoulj@gmail.com

 

 

 

Dear Eggplant,

 

Over two months have passed since I said goodbye to you in Guangzhou. Though the friendship between us has melted into our lives, yet I knew clearly that we would never meet again until I get to the paradise where you stay at the moment. After many days of sadness, I finally got over my heartbreak through praying for the next turn of life.

 

If we have another turn of life, I certainly would like to be one of your classmates from kindergarten to postgraduate studies. However, let’s promise each other that we would be only generally good students rather than the top ones. In that way, we would throw away any false masks so that we would make us as real ourselves rather than others.

 

In addition, I would strongly ask for my student number to be in front of yours but following yours. In that way, I still leave all the first places to you except for going to the end. Thousands of times I have imagined and experienced the feeling when you sent me off. But I never considered that I would see you off first. Moreover, I would definitely recommend that you be renamed as Chen Dayue and instruct you to take care of yourself before you take care of others. Never forget to please yourself, mostly by acquiring the consciousness and the wisdom of the internal heart..

 

If I have a next turn of life, I would like to be one of your best friends. I want you and me to retreat early from the materialized world. Let’s pay more attention to our internal spiritual world, consider the meaning of life seriously, and get back to our real nature. I would love to discuss with you more about how to keep ourselves in very good condition and how to enjoy a high quality of life. I would persuade you to change your food preference from meat and dessert to vegetables and fruits. And, I also want you to prefer singing, dancing and drinking tea to climbing, playing basketball, and drinking alcohol. In one word, I would suggest that you renew your concept of life. Focus on loving and enjoying your life and not on your career alone.

 

If I were a lady again in my next turn, I would still want to be the female soul friend of yours. In that case, I would make myself an endless book. That is, a really nice book made from affection and kindness. There would be many beautiful words and soft feelings shining from and flowing through the book. Whenever and wherever you meet any troubles, I would come to you right away to comfort you, support you and give you any assistance that I can. As always, I expect nothing from you except for your smiles and happiness. Please remember our mutual promise that we would accompany each other until we are over 90 years old. I’m confident that we would definitely make our dream come true even if we were in two separate spaces. Believe me that I would give much concern to your daughter Mengmeng, your young sister Xiaolin and brother Xiaozhuo, and to Lizhe as well. I would cherish the friendship between us and never disappoint you as long as I live in this world.

 

Although you have left us physically, your heart and soul are alive forever in our hearts. Like your family, all of your students, classmates and friends keep missing you, respecting you and loving you, always. We are so looking forward to meeting you again in our next turns. Please Xiaoyue wait for me and wait for us there.

 

Warmest regards and hugs to you and the two little dogs

Yours truly,

Frog

 

 

 

 

注:“茄子”是小悦的外号,“蛤蟆”是本人的外号。

 


 

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